Tuesday, 19 November 2013

An Unhealthy Obsession.

Our world has an unhealthy obsession with violence. Be it sport, war, crime, tragedy or self-destruction.  The language around sport, the bring back the biff and the brother against brother, mate against mate tag lines of sport promotion speaks all about the violence inherent in physical conflict.

Violence sneaks into our language without us knowing. Suddenly we are 'doing battle'; we no longer say we don't like something, we hate it; to get fit we go to a boot camp; we are not going to simply win, but we are going to 'smash' them, and much more.  


James Hillman suggests by the title of his little book that we have 'A Terrible Love of War'. He suggests we are hardwired for conflict as a means of individual and corporate identity and an affirmation that there is something worthy enough, great enough, big enough to die for. C. S Lewis, the writer of Narnia, took it for granted that war was with us forever and could not understand the position of pacifists or those advocating non-violence. He believed war was inevitable, and sometimes necessary. He suggested the primary purpose of war was to remind us we are destined to die.

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Sunday, 27 October 2013

Youthful Prophets

For most of my adult life I have had the great pleasure of working with young people; on the streets of Sydney and Brisbane; in the juvenile detention centres; in the Royal Australian Navy and in schools across two states. I say pleasure because young people are open, honest, sometimes a little too honest, quick to cut through the superficialities to the real questions.
And they won’t be put off by adult posturing and pretence.  They can sense when you are fair dinkum.
A year 9 student recently lost his father unexpectedly. He is doing it tough. He came to see me, and after some discussion, I looked him in the eye and said, ‘ I would be lying to you if I said what happened will ever get better. It won’t. You will just get better at handling it.’  He looked at me and said, ‘Thank you for saying that. I needed to hear that.’ He was looking for a love or respect that was real, hard and true.  

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